{"id":2806,"date":"2025-10-03T21:41:18","date_gmt":"2025-10-03T19:41:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/eminakdogan.pl\/is-something-wrong-with-me-or-with-these-people\/"},"modified":"2026-10-28T01:00:12","modified_gmt":"2026-10-28T00:00:12","slug":"is-something-wrong-with-me-or-with-these-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/eminakdogan.pl\/en\/is-something-wrong-with-me-or-with-these-people\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Something Wrong With Me, Or With These People?"},"content":{"rendered":"[vc_row type=&#8221;in_container&#8221; full_screen_row_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; column_margin=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_tablet=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_phone=&#8221;default&#8221; scene_position=&#8221;center&#8221; text_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; row_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; row_border_radius_applies=&#8221;bg&#8221; overflow=&#8221;visible&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; shape_divider_position=&#8221;bottom&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;no-extra-padding&#8221; column_padding_tablet=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_phone=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; column_element_direction_desktop=&#8221;default&#8221; column_element_spacing=&#8221;default&#8221; desktop_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_backdrop_filter=&#8221;none&#8221; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; column_link_target=&#8221;_self&#8221; column_position=&#8221;default&#8221; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/1&#8243; tablet_width_inherit=&#8221;default&#8221; animation_type=&#8221;default&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; border_type=&#8221;simple&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221; text_direction=&#8221;default&#8221;]<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you ever caught yourself thinking this? After another rejection, after another &#8220;I need to think about it,&#8221; after another unanswered call&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This frustration affects EVERYONE involved in network marketing!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Interestingly, it does NOT affect lazy people. Quite the opposite! This is the frustration of AMBITIOUS individuals who TRULY want to achieve results.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_row_inner column_margin=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_tablet=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_phone=&#8221;default&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; row_position=&#8221;default&#8221; row_position_tablet=&#8221;inherit&#8221; row_position_phone=&#8221;inherit&#8221; overflow=&#8221;visible&#8221; pointer_events=&#8221;all&#8221;][vc_column_inner column_padding=&#8221;no-extra-padding&#8221; column_padding_tablet=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_phone=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; column_element_direction_desktop=&#8221;default&#8221; column_element_spacing=&#8221;default&#8221; desktop_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_backdrop_filter=&#8221;none&#8221; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; column_link_target=&#8221;_self&#8221; overflow=&#8221;visible&#8221; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/6&#8243; tablet_width_inherit=&#8221;default&#8221; animation_type=&#8221;default&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; border_type=&#8221;simple&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner column_padding=&#8221;no-extra-padding&#8221; column_padding_tablet=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_phone=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; column_element_direction_desktop=&#8221;default&#8221; column_element_spacing=&#8221;default&#8221; centered_text=&#8221;true&#8221; desktop_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_backdrop_filter=&#8221;none&#8221; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; column_link_target=&#8221;_self&#8221; overflow=&#8221;visible&#8221; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243; tablet_width_inherit=&#8221;default&#8221; animation_type=&#8221;default&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; border_type=&#8221;simple&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; column_padding_type=&#8221;default&#8221; gradient_type=&#8221;default&#8221;][nectar_video_lightbox link_style=&#8221;play_button_2&#8243; nectar_play_button_color=&#8221;Default-Accent-Color&#8221; image_url=&#8221;970&#8243; hover_effect=&#8221;defaut&#8221; box_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; play_button_size=&#8221;default&#8221; video_url=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=dbnC4wY6vWE&#8221;][nectar_btn size=&#8221;large&#8221; open_new_tab=&#8221;true&#8221; button_style=&#8221;regular&#8221; button_color_2=&#8221;Accent-Color&#8221; icon_family=&#8221;none&#8221; text=&#8221;Watch on YouTube&#8221; url=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=dbnC4wY6vWE&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner column_padding=&#8221;no-extra-padding&#8221; column_padding_tablet=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_phone=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; column_element_direction_desktop=&#8221;default&#8221; column_element_spacing=&#8221;default&#8221; desktop_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_backdrop_filter=&#8221;none&#8221; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; column_link_target=&#8221;_self&#8221; overflow=&#8221;visible&#8221; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/6&#8243; tablet_width_inherit=&#8221;default&#8221; animation_type=&#8221;default&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; border_type=&#8221;simple&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221; text_direction=&#8221;default&#8221;]\n<h2><b>Key Lesson: Five Areas That Cause Frustration<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This frustration most often arises in five situations:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Communication Without Understanding<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You think you&#8217;re explaining clearly, but the other person understands something different. Always verify understanding by asking: &#8220;Please tell me, how did you understand this in your own words?&#8221; This simple technique gives you immediate feedback on whether your message reached its intended destination.  <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Sales Without Finalization<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You think you&#8217;ve presented the offer well, but you hear &#8220;I&#8217;ll think about it.&#8221; People rarely make decisions on their own. They need someone to guide them by the hand until they say &#8220;yes.&#8221;  <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Business Presentation Without Effect<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You think you&#8217;re showcasing the business brilliantly, but you hear &#8220;it&#8217;s not for me.&#8221; People don&#8217;t reject network marketing as such\u2014they reject the way it was presented to them. Often, the business is presented as &#8220;sales,&#8221; and yet most people don&#8217;t feel like &#8220;salespeople.&#8221;  <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Meetings That Don&#8217;t Happen<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People confirm, and then they don&#8217;t show up. This is a clear signal that insufficient interest and engagement have been built. When someone truly wants to meet with you, they will be the one reminding you about it.  <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Lack of Team Action<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Team members declare action but don&#8217;t take it. Why? Because we focus on informing them what to do, instead of selling them the vision of why it&#8217;s beneficial for them. People don&#8217;t act for you\u2014they act for themselves.   <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;In each of these situations, the same illusion appears: &#8216;I think I&#8217;m doing it right.&#8217; But what if I told you that the problem often does NOT lie with you\u2014but in a lack of understanding of the MECHANISMS that govern effectiveness?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Learn More<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the full video material, I share:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The principle of statistics and probability in network marketing\u2014why consistency of action is crucial<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My approach to the three-chance rule\u2014how to give people an opportunity while maintaining self-respect<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Three specific questions that revolutionize how conversations are finalized<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The difference between &#8220;playing at business&#8221; and &#8220;acting seriously&#8221;\u2014and how it impacts your results<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember\u2014you are not alone in your doubts. 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